Friendster ka ba?
There's a lot of things that young people have in common and one of them is FRIENDS. Everywhere you go kasama mo sila physically or even if you are alone kasi you think of them, and you remember what they said about you. Parang libag nakakapit na sa atin ang ating mga kaibigan but let me introduce to you the different set of friends that we should watch out because they are TOXIC! Entering into a friendship opens the door for hurt and harm; a harmful friend or a toxic friendship can be one of life's hardest relationship tribulations to forgive and forget. Toxic friends often come back to haunt you for a long time.
The User:
This person only has friends as long as he/she can use them for some purpose or goal of his/her own. This person could be the most harmful of toxic friends.
The Betrayer:
Nothing hurts more than a friend who betrays your trust.
The Control Freak:
A friend as long as he/she is in control. The control freak often seems to be helping you. Refuse that help or break that control and find out what toxic frienship really means.
The Judge:
Ever judgmental ever critical, this friend can erode your self-esteem. The judge is a fault finder. You can rarely do anything completely right with this toxic friend.
The Promise Breaker:
This person rarely does what he says he will do. If you have a date, your toxic friend is often a no-show. A general ack of dependability makes this person a toxic friend.
The Gossip:
The gossip will eventually betray your trust and become toxic friend. Gossips are easy to spot so beware your friendship with them.
The Self-Centered:
This are people that can't think of you as they are too busy thinking of themselves.
The Competitor:
Is always looking to be "one up". Although some competitiveness is normal in friendships, too much competition makes a toxic friend.
The Leaner:
The leaner is a very needy friend who clings and may be at your doorstep everyday. He/She usually wants all of your time and jealousy often enters the picture in this friendship.
Anong klaseng kaibigan meron ka???
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ms. suplada says:
this blog is really good. but i just wanna share my opinion regarding "choosing the right friends." i was once asked by a close friend of mine a question like this, "pinipili ba yung magiging kaibigan?!" kc meron ngang nakikipag kaibigan sken na guy whom i found not-so-nice., so at first, i really thinked twice but i still rejected him..but when my friend asked me that simple-but-striking question., i realized one important matter, if God desires to be our friend, why not us? bakit hindi rin tau mkpagfriends w/o thinking or choosing the right qualities., dba nga dpat mas minamahal yung mga taong mas kelangan ng pagmamahal and most importantly, ng understanding?! so guys, have fun! be a good friend to everyone! love one another as what God wants us to do!
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