“MU n b tayo?!”
I was surfing the net one time, searching for thoughts about the MU fever then I came across these lines from a confused blogger.
"ano ba talaga?!? hayy!ang gulo talaga... unfair di ba?!? di mo alam kung anong status nyo...you're doing things na parang kayo, pero hindi..."
This could be the same thing some of you are experiencing toward your friend, bestfriend, klasmeyt or katrabaho. "Love ba talaga 'to?" At the back of your mind, you're confused.
MU or Mutual Understanding has become a fad in our culture today particularly for teenagers and singles out there. You can hear different stories over and over again MU for ilang months of texting, blogging, chatting, and friendster update after that break na! Iba nman, are prolonging the agony of being attached with someone. Don't know where they are going? How will their relationship work? In other words, magulong usapan!
The truth is... there is no such thing as MU in a relationship. WHY? Ito kasi ang defense mechanism ng mga taong ayaw ng COMMITMENT. They're running away from a nerve breaking attachment and responsibility. Instead of being committed, kumitid ang brains nila to comprehend what should be done in a right way. Commitment o Mukhang Unggoy na lang?
Commitment is pledging yourself to a certain purpose and doing it consistently. Moving away from it, ruins your relationship with others and eventually your own life!
How about U? Wt are ur thoughts about this topic?
Will share more insights to our next blog....In the mean time, would like to hear frm U.
147 Comments
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youth says:
what if ganon nga?. we don't have a commitment but we treat each other so special?..
what are we gonna going to do?.. is it unfair?.. please. please. i need an answer. and counseling as well. thank you very much.. GOD bless.
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Fatima says:
Hello!!
This is Fatima (snowwhite- tawag ni ate Kai)... Faci from beda alabang dati...I agree with this thing! Super laughtrip nung nabasa ko ung MU-Mukhang unggoy! promise! tawa ako ng tawa!!!
ang MU... ginagamit ng takot o manloloko... hahaha! pwede ring pre-commitment... pero... usually.. para un sa mga takot! :p
sana nabasa ko to dati! hahaha!i wana train again.. i miss tlw..
sana maulit yung overnight training and stuff... miss the fun and the experience...
Miss you guys! TC po!Regards to the Team.
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youth says:
what should i tell her?.. we both like each other but we are waiting for the right time para ligawan ko siya.. is it good?.. na... we treat each other so special without comitment because we are waiting for the right time nga?..
thanks! Lord bless.. -
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Almon says:
wait i still don't get it.. why would you fool yourself to a relationship that you're not even sure if it's real.. i think tama nga MU is just a defense mechanism sa mga taong takot sa commitment.. mm... i think ako naexperince ko na pero kahit ako, i'm denying the fact na MU na yun, pero nanligaw na siya pero i told him to wait if he's really serious about having a real relationship (yun nga yung bf-gf) hmm... weird bakit pa kasi naimbento yan eh.. hahaha!
sabi pala ng mom ko, wisdom is learned through the experince of other people.. sa kung alam mo ng mali yun bakit mo pa gagawin?? di ba?:D
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jinky says:
I've thought of MU as "you like each other yet you're not committed but the wrong thing is both of you are doing acts as if you are bf-gf"..either of the two or both had the possibility of getting hurt and assuming of something. A boy-girl relationship is more than of love only, it's also a commitment WHEN YOU ARE REALLY READY for it.
Advise for girls: If you can, just be quiet with your feelings. And wait for GOD. For what will HE do and what will HE say to that guy and what will the guy do.
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TLW Admin says:
Hi Losyr, (Hope thats not your real name
)I think it is necessary for you to personally ask the guy what are his intentions why he says na mahal ka niya. At times, mahirap kasi na mag-assume that a person is for you pero temporary lang namn ung kilig. Seriously, the both you need to revisit and reexamine your heart before God. Kasi for sure, its taking much of your mind just to think about him and your situation.
Also go back to God's Word and seek and hear God (not what your heart says). Take some weeks without any communication with him just focus lang kay God.
Praying for you!
Franco
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ria says:
What if you are trapped in an MU just because you want to have that special someone and at the same time you don't get to disobey you're parents? (Just because your parents don't want you to commit yourself to a boy-girl relationship?)
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