Not Even a Hint

Question:
Why does God demand sexual purity?

Answer:
God isn’t demanding sexual purity because he’s mean and doesn’t want us to have fun. He created sex and wants you to enjoy it at its best. And His best plan is for sex to be enjoyed in marriage, by one man and one woman who have made a commitment to love each other.

Here’s a thought: magsusuot ka ba ng damit na matagal nang hindi nalalabhan or would you prefer yung bagong bili or bagong laba? Siyempre, yung bago!

As with God, He wants us to have the best not second best… ok? Iba si Lord. He loved us so much He died on the cross for us to enjoy purity sa future relationship natin with the opposite sex and especially with Him.

U-turn Slot

Question:
What if a person is not as pure as he/she should be, (or in other words) is not a virgin anymore? What are the things that he/she could do to be able to rebuild his/her hope for true love?

Answer:
Good example of this is about a woman caught in adultery forgiven by Jesus and able to enjoy a second chance by Jesus himself. For those who have lost their purity or are not a virgin anymore there is hope. Just know that Jesus loves us many times not just one or two He did not stop not even a minute in loving us, that’s why He died on the cross. In forgiveness we are restored. We should not judge and that goes for even judging ourselves. Now for the rebuild. Like the U-turn slot on the street… turn around and go the other direction. John 8:1-11

Mr. or Miss Universe

Question:
How can I love someone without expecting that he/she is going to love me too?

Answer:
Real love is patient; unselfish and entails sacrifice. Kumbaga, kapag totoong mahal mo ang isang tao, you will just want what’s best for the other person – even if the “best” for that person does not include you. Like a text message sa cellphone kaya may space ung mga kamay natin kasi there’s someone out there in the universe that will fill that empty space, ‘wag kang magmadali. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

Lost and Found

Question:
Why is it more acceptable in the society when guys lose their virginity rather than when girls lose theirs?

Answer:
Kasi mas nasanay tayo sa ganong term na “okay lang, lalaki naman sila walang mawawala sa kanila kaya tanggap na sa society natin” but it’s not right. Let us not forget that God has one standard for all of us and that is purity. It is for you to decide, what to believe. Find the answer and your life will be better.

Time Will Tell

Question:
How can you know if he/she is the one or the one you will be with forever?

Answer:
People say get to know the person, spend time with the person. TLW says get to know God the author of love. Spend time everyday with God asking if this is the person. He’ll show you. Just trust Him!

Best Friend or Boy Friend?

Question:
If I have this one great true love but he just love me as his best friend, how can I learn to love someone?

Answer:
ove is caring about how others feel. So, you should respect how your friend feels for you even if it is not the response you are looking for. It’s best for you to control your thoughts and emotions in a Christ like manner. If is too difficult for you to guard your heart while being just friends then it will be helpful to put some distance between yourself and the object of your affection.

In or Out?

Question:
How will you know that you’re in love (true love)?

Answer:
Kapag in love ka daw, you’re not your usual self, medyo kakaiba ang mga kilos, parang wala sa sarili. You find yourself daydreaming, yung mukha niya laging sumasagi sa isip mo. The mere mention of the person’s name makes your heart leap. Hehe. Sorry to disappoint you friends pero, that’s not the nature of TRUE LOVE. Ang tawag dun ay ‘infatuation’.

They say LOVE is a many splendored thing it’s correct, because the one who puts LOVE in our heart is a Splendor, Wonderful, Mighty and Awesome GOD. And if you know Him, He will show you and guide you in finding TRUE LOVE.

Make 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 your checklist!

Indecent Proposal

Question:
What if the girl has already invited you to have sex? What will you do if you really love that person?

Answer:
Naku guys, kung mahal mo talaga siya, hindi mo hahayaang “magsalo kayo sa isang kasalanan”. Sex is a wonderful thing; God designed it. PERO, He designed it to be enjoyed within the bounds of a healthy, committed, married life. It isn’t cowardice to turn a girl down when she makes her moves on you.

Let her know you are there as a friend - that’s LOVE bro’!

The Fast and the Furious

Question:
Is it possible to fall in love in a short period of time?

Answer:
Sa panahon ngayon we are bombarded with different ideas, thoughts about LOVE kahit saan, sa text, sa internet, sa kapitbahay, kahit kanino pwede tayong makakakuha ng sagot sa tanong mo. Ako rin siyempre if you have a Bible with you open it at ECCLESIASTES 3 entitles A TIME FOR EVERYTHING. Sa verse 8 sabi niya, “He sets the time for love and time for hate, the time for war and the time for peace…” I myself cannot tell you if you’re gonna be in love in a short period of time but I know the One who can tell you: it’s GOD Himself. Do you wanna know how? You need to pray for it. Ask Him and He’ll gladly answer you back and as for me hindi naman tayo lumabas sa mundo na matanda na agad, dumaan din tayo sa pagiging bata, teenager, blah, blah… ganon din ang pag-ibig, hindi yan INSTANT FASTFOOD… niluluto po ang pag-ibig parang adobo - habang tumatagal sumasarap!!!

Kapitbahay… pinsan pala!

Question:
How can you avoid being jealous if you love someone?

Answer:
First ask yourself the question, “Why am I jealous?” Jealousy is rooted in fear - or more specifically - insecurity. You may be insecure that your girlfriend thinks the hunk sa kabilang bahay has bigger biceps than you. If you truly love and trust your girlfriend, you wouldn’t be jealous. If your girlfriend can’t be trusted because she IS cheating, well… that’s another story. Sometimes, your jealousy can be dispelled just by clearing things up with the person you love. Make sure that you’re not overreacting… be objective and don’t be afraid to ask them para maiwasan ang gulo sa una pa lang. Pinsan niya pala yung kapitbahay!

Ang Nakaraan…

Question:
What if you discover that the guy who is courting you had an intimate relationship with a guy in the past?

Answer:
Many people who have chosen purity in their own lives prefer to marry someone completely pure also. However, it would be good to listen first and not judge so quickly. Pray about it, and decide for yourself if that is an issue.

Like God sees us, we need to look inside a person. God sees us united with Him. When that happens, we get a fresh start. And God calls us new! Our past is gone; a new life has started! 2 Corinthians 5: 17

“You may now kiss the bride.”

Question:
Is kissing wrong?

Answer:
Why put yourself in a place of temptation?

Safest place is at the altar. In front of the God who created you and your true love.